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I watch 100’s YouTube videos and this is the first time I have ever felt compelled to make a comment. Lewis I always love your content and enjoy watching your podcasts. Being truthful, I had never heard of Vivian before today. After watching this, not only am I immediately not ordering her book but the title of the video is insanely misleading… only about 1/4 or 1/5 is about mentality, skillset or steps in reaching financial success. The rest is essentially womensplaining and feminism
I wrote out my 5 year and 10 year plan a few months ago. I plan to get out of complete debt in 3 years. I choose to get and stay rich as f@&k each day! Thank you for the interview.
one thing that bugs rich people is that normal everyday people can buy some of the same stuff they buy and it's makes them kind of jealous cause it makes them realize that they arent' that special lol
guys get nervous when they see attractive women, I think it's a natural stress response, women also get nervous to talk to an attractive man hence women never approach, but men are expected to approach but it's not always worth the potential hassle approaching a women who's gorgeous and rich and probably just a feminist manly women
why is he asking weird questions about how women can't respect men if they don't earn more than her? like? it's a relationship, people should respect each other. that's a given and gender doesn't matter when it comes to respect.
So true I’m having a hard time finding mentor that can help me understand how to built wealth that suit my financial well-being. I have us friends done investing. How do they do it and they would say I don’t know so it kind of frustrating being a single mom trying to juggle paying bill and planning for my retirement so I can say it’s easy said than done
I saw a thumbnail with the title of a video, and I probably would never have opened it because of the materialistic 'clickbait' phrase used to entice viewers. It promised to reveal what most millionaires supposedly do, which didn't interest me. but, the video autoplayed after another, and I listened to the first 10 minutes. That's when I realized it was actually a good video, worth to watch.
Sprinkle sprinkle ladies and don’t share your 💸 with him 😂 and take his! Don’t follow her advice on this 50-50 between a woman and her man, but the rest of the advice on personal finance and work stuff is very good and useful
3:06 That sounded personal 😂 "The rich kids still don't wanna be friends with you because you can afford to split the table at the club on Friday night."
“Why do you think men are intimidated by extremely successful or physically attractive women?”
“Fear of inadequacy, obviously.”
Nah… Men see extremely attractive and successful women every day. We watch them, we listen to them and then we see certain common character traits in them. It’s these common character traits that we try to avoid. Obviously not all extremely attractive or successful women carry these same traits but enough of them do that our default thinking of them is that they are or will be the way extremely beautiful or successful women are. So we stay away. If we see that they are a unicorn THEN we might approach them. Otherwise, why waste the time? Why find out that they have those attitudes that being extremely attractive or successful form and miss out on approaching the friend?
I don't care about 'what do mEn need to approach a woman more successful than them' – it's about HER and HER SUCCESS, talk about your guest and HER PERSPECTIVE – why are you making her an object of the male gaze again and asking her that question? Insecure men need to stop oppressing women to feel better about their lil egos, that's the answer to that question. Your way of questioning is SO patriarchal and sexist and you wouldn't even notice. A woman podcaster would never ask that kind of belittling question. That podcast failed the Bechdel test. Talk about the woman in front of you and NOT about any man that you relate her to. A woman is an autonomous person with her own will and perspective, how about that?
My old boss used to take us out to eat as a group for Christmas dinner a week or so before Christmas and counted all the things each department did for the company during the year to celebrate!!
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Thanks to Vivian for sharing her knowledge with the Greatness community! Leave a “YES” if you enjoyed this and share your biggest takeaway. Make sure to subscribe to never miss out on inspiring content like this again youtube.com/lewishowes
Excellent conversation, i really enjoyed this video. I appreciate both of you. Thank you so much sir.❤❤
I watch 100’s YouTube videos and this is the first time I have ever felt compelled to make a comment. Lewis I always love your content and enjoy watching your podcasts. Being truthful, I had never heard of Vivian before today. After watching this, not only am I immediately not ordering her book but the title of the video is insanely misleading… only about 1/4 or 1/5 is about mentality, skillset or steps in reaching financial success. The rest is essentially womensplaining and feminism
❤❤
What’s her book?
2025 will be mine❤
So fire
I wrote out my 5 year and 10 year plan a few months ago. I plan to get out of complete debt in 3 years. I choose to get and stay rich as f@&k each day!
Thank you for the interview.
Women are the ones who can't handle being with a man who makes less than them.
probably the best talk ive seen in a minute. excellent knowledge drop and discussion
How to stay listening your videos.I am understand at all.😢😢
A great journey
women do have this delusional sense of deserving a billionaire nowadays or some famous guy
one thing that bugs rich people is that normal everyday people can buy some of the same stuff they buy and it's makes them kind of jealous cause it makes them realize that they arent' that special lol
A lot of career women are single once they get that rich and they get lonely
guys get nervous when they see attractive women, I think it's a natural stress response, women also get nervous to talk to an attractive man hence women never approach, but men are expected to approach but it's not always worth the potential hassle approaching a women who's gorgeous and rich and probably just a feminist manly women
she's very smart
She's great ❤❤❤ 🙂 thanks for ideas
If anyone can do that i want you help me doing this challenge
Now I gotta leave a 50% tip at the 5 ⭐️ restaurant
I don’t even know what to say – Vivian nailed this so hard.
Everything she said is 200% true.
Best example was experiences vs what kind purse I am carrying.
Low hanging example @7:04. We can all smell that difference, come with the less obvious.
YES!! Absolutely love her, everything was insightful and best of all, explained in a true and present day manner. Thank you for this!
A lot of successful women date men getting/have PhDs because their sense of success is intellectual rather than income
Boring
Part true, but not applied to the people who like Warren Buffett. She might change her view when she getting older.
why is he asking weird questions about how women can't respect men if they don't earn more than her? like? it's a relationship, people should respect each other. that's a given and gender doesn't matter when it comes to respect.
So true I’m having a hard time finding mentor that can help me understand how to built wealth that suit my financial well-being. I have us friends done investing. How do they do it and they would say I don’t know so it kind of frustrating being a single mom trying to juggle paying bill and planning for my retirement so I can say it’s easy said than done
She is like a character from the movie 'crazy rich asians' Good stuff Vivian
I saw a thumbnail with the title of a video, and I probably would never have opened it because of the materialistic 'clickbait' phrase used to entice viewers. It promised to reveal what most millionaires supposedly do, which didn't interest me. but, the video autoplayed after another, and I listened to the first 10 minutes. That's when I realized it was actually a good video, worth to watch.
Loooved it!!!
Yes!! Vivian is honest , authentic, original, raw speaker ! Love her ❤I’ll buy her book and thank you for bringing her to your show.
And this is why i love her. She speaks the truth!
so good i enjoy it thanks bro🥰🥰🥰
Sprinkle sprinkle ladies and don’t share your 💸 with him 😂 and take his! Don’t follow her advice on this 50-50 between a woman and her man, but the rest of the advice on personal finance and work stuff is very good and useful
Can i get a ra ra ra 😄
3:06 That sounded personal 😂 "The rich kids still don't wanna be friends with you because you can afford to split the table at the club on Friday night."
“Why do you think men are intimidated by extremely successful or physically attractive women?”
“Fear of inadequacy, obviously.”
Nah…
Men see extremely attractive and successful women every day. We watch them, we listen to them and then we see certain common character traits in them. It’s these common character traits that we try to avoid. Obviously not all extremely attractive or successful women carry these same traits but enough of them do that our default thinking of them is that they are or will be the way extremely beautiful or successful women are. So we stay away. If we see that they are a unicorn THEN we might approach them. Otherwise, why waste the time? Why find out that they have those attitudes that being extremely attractive or successful form and miss out on approaching the friend?
I don't care about 'what do mEn need to approach a woman more successful than them' – it's about HER and HER SUCCESS, talk about your guest and HER PERSPECTIVE – why are you making her an object of the male gaze again and asking her that question? Insecure men need to stop oppressing women to feel better about their lil egos, that's the answer to that question. Your way of questioning is SO patriarchal and sexist and you wouldn't even notice. A woman podcaster would never ask that kind of belittling question. That podcast failed the Bechdel test. Talk about the woman in front of you and NOT about any man that you relate her to. A woman is an autonomous person with her own will and perspective, how about that?
Can he get a 2nd job ?
My old boss used to take us out to eat as a group for Christmas dinner a week or so before Christmas and counted all the things each department did for the company during the year to celebrate!!
I absolutely love her three truths that was amazing listened from start to finish thank you
Yor wrong for example in japan no tip 50% tippppp
Yall lost me at pickleball.
Great interview